My name is Brandi. Let me tell you my story, but briefly. I do not wish to bore you. And there are other things I wish to discuss. I am still young, still learning and growing. Here is where I have come from; the line between points "a" and "b."
I became a Christian when I was 8 years old. I did not know what that would mean to me for the rest of my life. I had no idea how it would shape and alter my reality. But there I was, alone in the living room, kneeling beside the couch and asking Jesus to forgive my sins; surrendering myself to him, asking him to be my savior. I felt an overwhelming sense of peace and joy. Tears streamed down my face. I ran upstairs and told my father I had been saved, and he was so proud of me.
I had spent the last few weeks reading "Chick Tracts," you see. There are problems with those tracts, I know. I came to see it myself, even as a Christian. But we cannot deny that many have a straightforward Gospel message. Conspiracy theories and kooky info aside, even a child can see the Gospel in them. And God is more powerful than the foolishness of men.
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I collected tracts, books, anything that would bolster my faith and provide me with greater knowledge. I spent hours online, plundering information and debating in forums. I was very interested in apologetics and evangelism, seeking to learn and converse about faith whenever I had the opportunity.
I was little older than 12.
I was in high school when my faith faced stormy waters. Our family no longer attended church, and I was suddenly flung into adolescence. I discovered that my peers did not share my zeal for God, and I was in a position where I needed to defend myself and my faith in a very hostile environment.
But I always prayed. I read my Bible, and my materials. I left tracts around the school, and tried to share the Gospel with others.
When I was 18, I discovered Ray Comfort and The Way of the Master. This resource changed the way I viewed myself, my faith, and evangelism. I started questioning the nature of my salvation and the idea of repentance. If the church had changed the message and nature of evangelism, then I wanted to understand the Biblical way. I started studying the Bible in light of these methods.
It was not until I entered college that I faced a period of true turmoil. Many things changed. I was living away from home in a place of diverse views and divergent thoughts. I was no longer secure in my own little bubble, and my mind was struck with terrible disequilibrium.
My every thought in life had been in the light and context of God's existence, and the truth of the Bible. How could it be wrong, when I knew it was so right? I had always known it was true. Of course there is a God. But is there, really? All of these people, so many of them will be condemned to hell. How could this be possible? But, then again, don't we all deserve this? Is there really an afterlife?
I struggled, isolated from anyone that could help me. My mind was perplexed, and there was no other mind to plug into, no one there who had more information, who could reinforce my faith.
I was very alone.
I wanted to go before God with everything, but my sinful, back-slidden self fought against this. I was ashamed for ever doubting and falling into sin. So, so ashamed. And if I went before God, I would be reaffirmed, readjusted, rebooted. My life would change, and I was afraid I would not be able to do it, to run the race, to put my hand to the plow and never look back.
At the time, I was rooming with the girl who became my best friend. She was Catholic, participating in the customs of the church. I wanted to talk to her. I knew Jesus. I knew things she needed to know. But I looked at myself; such a hypocrite! How can I reach out to her and talk to her about sin and salvation when I am such a sinner myself? Cussing, drinking, smoking; clearly I was not a Christian.
Every day I thought about it until I finally gave in. I was broken. I fell on the floor, alone again, and cried out to God. Such a difficult thing it was to do! Like wanting to jump into the water, but fearing it may freeze or sear your body.
I cried out in shame, in pain, for mercy. I had been wicked, so evil, for falling away, for ever doubting. I had been such a bad example, destroying my testimony. I apologized and begged God to forgive me. I loved Him. I wanted to please Him. I wanted Him to make me like His son. I told Him, "I cannot do this alone. I can't do this unless you carry me. I am weak. I am pathetic. I can't do this. Please save me. You have to do it for me. I am like a stupid sheep, not knowing where to go. If I wander, guide me back. You are the Good Shepherd. Do not let me go astray. Because if I fall away again, I will not be able to come back."
Oh, the peace and joy! New tears on my face, I called my father and told him what happened, told him that God had a plan for him, despite the circumstances that he was facing. He had been driving home from work, and pulled over to listen. He had just been thinking about this on the way home, worrying about losing his house, and doubting God. It was just what he needed to hear to give him hope. We took it as a sign from God. He is there for us, even in the worst times. Do not lose faith.
I left that room a new girl! I had a fresh, clean slate! I stopped drinking and smoking. I threw away anything that caused me to sin, or anything that could cause others to stumble. My favorite books and DVDs, my cherished comic collections; anything that I put before God, anything that was an idol had to go.
Because I didn't want idols. I wanted Jesus.
Things would be right this time. God will sanctify me! I am filled with the Holy Spirit! And I know that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, will be able to separate me from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus my Lord!